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No, you do not want to be unfair to your date, but there are certain dating dealbrearkers that might end your relationship even before beginning. Many new relationships are doomed right at the start because of certain dealbreakers, which could be a trait, habit, or personality that distracts you or you just cannot accept and compromise on. Now it could be something that you cannot expect to see in a romantic partner.

9 Common Dating Dealbreakers

1.      1. Boring

If a person is boring and has no life dreams, hobbies, or passions, you could see it as a dealbreaker. This could break their relationship with the person they are trying to date who could see them as boring.

2.      2. Bad manners

Well, you want your date to have good traits. But if they are rude and have a bag full of bad manners, you might not want to continue with them. In fact, behavior and personal traits can make or break a relationship. One such bad trait is cigarette smoking. Many people are plain unhappy sitting or dating with someone who smokes. The reason could be awful breath, bad teeth, ruined personality and /or looks, and poor health. Substance abuse could be a dating dealbreaker for many.

3.      3. Unwilling to change

Some people consider the other person’s unwillingness to change as a dealbreaker. Especially if the person is not keen to change for personal growth. This is especially true if they are stuck in a job but still do not want to learn and unlearn and/or expand their knowledge or hone their skills to do better in life. Many people see their partner in those who are open to change and not enslaved to their routine. Enjoying and accepting new experiences can help you avoid this dating blunder.

4.      4. Social media obsession

People obsessed with social media can ruin their relationship easily. Ignoring someone’s presence for social media is a dealbreaker that you want to avoid. This comes to be seen as insulting the other person.

5.     5.  Lack of respect for self-image or health

Not caring about your health or showing utter disregard for self is a deal breaker for some people. So it might help to be mindful about your health and show interest in maintaining your self-image or figure by focusing on a healthy lifestyle.

6.      6. Poor communication

If you're dating someone, you expect the communication to flow. But if the other person fails to communicate properly, is unable to explain their interests, and cannot accept or deny things, that's an ultimate dealbreaker. You cannot know a person without two-way communication where you speak and they listen and vice versa. Asking all the wrong dating questions could also put a full stop to the relationship.

7.     7.  Inconsistency

One of the biggest dating dealbreakers is inconsistency on the part of someone you're dating. If a person is untrustworthy because of inconsistent approach, this is a red signal and won’t take your relationship too far. There is bound to be a lot of friction in such a relationship. When you date someone, there is literally no place for friction.

8.      8. Disrespect for others

If someone you're dating fails to respect and value your morals, you may not be able to take the relationship far. Either tell them how to treat you by setting the standard and sticking to them or call it quits.

9.      9. Unfair expectations

The dating game can be a complex challenge, especially if there are unfair expectations. Asking for too much or expecting too much from a date might not be welcome for the other person. No doubt, this could be an easy dating dealbreaker. Never expect your partner too go above and beyond for you.

A relationship is like a vehicle that requires the fuel of constant communication, understanding, fairness, and respect. Unless you have these traits, you might not succeed in the dating game. Be wary of the dating dealbreakers and blunders in order to be able to take the dating game forward.

 

Rav

Now that you have decided to step into the world of dating, are you really prepared for it? Well, there is a lot to consider in the dating world. In fact, there is much more to the dating game than the same old tired dating questions. Let’s explore some uncommon questions for a first date to add an element of fun and excitement. What’s more, it’s an opportunity to know your date more.

What is your favorite memory thus far?

This is going to be an out-of-the-box dating question for your date. But they should enjoy talking about it as many people love to share their favorite childhood memory with someone who is actually interested in listening. No doubt, this can set the stage for a beautiful conversation too.

What was the last book you read?

You love reading, so you want to learn if your date too is interested in books. Asking about the last book they have read is a good way to unravel this. What’s more, if both of you are book lovers, try to recommend a book for seasoned readers that you loved and make an impression.

‍What’s that one thing that you’ve been craving for?

Another uncommon question for a first date is to ask them about something specific that they have always wanted to buy. It could be a specific type of craft or sports equipment or a pair of earrings or food or just about anything.

One question that she would pause and think. This gives you a peep into their interests and priorities.

What is that one thing that you would want to delete from your history?

Now it’s time to turn the clock back on. By asking one out of the box question for a first date, you are giving them something to ponder. There could be a heartburn or a bad episode or a mistake that she wants to forget.

What’s your friend group like – married or single?

Ask them about their friend group. Instead of directly asking about friends, ask if her friends are married or single. This gives you an insight into their friend circle and how much time they spend together. While married ones are less likely to frequently go out together, singles will be more open to partying and hanging out often.

What’s your favorite joke?

While not everyone is skilled at cracking jokes, but we all have some jokes in our kitty that we love to crack when we feel comfortable about a situation. Now is the time to make them feel comfortable in your company and ask about their favorite joke. Who knows this joke might be a memory to remember for a lifetime even if you part ways?

What’s the single piece of advice you want to give someone?

What are your life’s values? No, you cannot ask them directly about their values. But one way to learn a bit about their values is to ask them about one piece of advice they want to give others. Or in other words, ask them what is important in their life.

It’s an opportunity to learn something about them.

Do you love social interactions?

You want to know whether your date is an introvert or extrovert. Now you cannot ask this directly. But there is a way out to learn about her social side. So one uncommon question for a first date will be to ask them about their love for social interactions.

What did you do on last holiday?

Learn about how she likes to spend her time. What are her plans for the next holidays? This gives you an idea about her likes and dislikes. Remember her answers. If things go well between both, you can ride confidently on the life’s journey together and reinforce your relationship.


Sometimes out-of-the-box questions for a first date can bring a smile on your date’s face and give them an idea about your personality. The type of questions you ask will decide your personality traits. Their answer to your questions give you a good idea about them.

So this is a win-win for both sides, and you can decide whether to go forward or choose separate ways.

 

Rav

What is mindfulness and how does it apply to dating? Mindfulness is the practice of improving self-awareness about your thoughts, feelings, and actions. When applied to the dating scene, mindfulness can help improve relationship between partners. So let us see a few mindful dating tips that help you become more honest about your relationship and feelings toward one another.


1. Know Yourself

Start by knowing yourself because that is the most important relationship in life. To improve mindful dating, it would help to first know and understand your emotions and how those emotions translate into thoughts and actions. This should help you potentially change your thoughts and actions in certain situations. When you know yourself better, you can easily understand the other person.

The more you know yourself, the better your understanding of what exactly you want from your partner. This lays the foundation to a healthy relationship.


2. Talk real

Mindful dating is all about encouraging open and honest communication. Avoid making assumptions without understanding the situation. Try not to avoid hard things; rather, face one another directly and see in each other’s eyes while communicating.

When you make efforts to talk real, it is a step to improve your mindful practice and simultaneously build a strong relationship.


3. Shun negativity

You want to be loved and treated with respect. If you have experienced rejection, hurt, or abandonment, the clouds of negativity might surround you. But when it comes to mindful dating, you should practice living in the moment and forget all negative vibes or conflicts of the past. Remind yourself that you have the power to overcome such negative beliefs and you alone can do that. It might help to affirm this belief every day you get up. Practice this before you hit the bed at night. let law of attraction start to work in your favor.


4. Say bye to emotional triggers

Never let your past emotional triggers hurt your present and future thoughts and relationships. Identify your emotional burden and learn to release those pent-up feelings or frustration. Remind yourself that past is gone and future is to come. Empower yourself to develop different dating criteria on what matters most to you. The focus will then shift to finding a partner with a specific pattern of behavior.


5. Be honest

Being honest never hurts. Try to be your authentic self and do what makes you comfortable. State this to your date. If they think they do not see any future with you, take that positively. Let them go. Never hold the truth. Rather, practice honesty whether you are in a committed relationship or not.


Be honest with what you actually want. Introspect and ask yourself about what you need, what your expectations are, are you in the right relationship, and what you have learned. You have all the answers. 

A little introspection should be helpful.

Last but not the least, it always helps to define the space between both of you. It is a good idea to discuss this space with your partner and mutually agree on it. This is important to keep the relationship going. Both will know what is expected of the relationship and there will be no heartburn later.

Practicing these mindful dating tips should take you to the next level where you enter into a committed relationship if that is your goal. 

Rav

Dating can be challenging if you are suffering from social anxiety. A mood disorder puts you in a challenging position as far as dating is concerned. For some, dating might stir up the anxiety levels further. The thoughts of virtually speaking with a potential date might make you wonder what to say or how to say or how long to wait before saying something. Dating anxiety might make you feel more anxious and stressful. But there are ways to cope with anxiety about dating. Here are a few anxiety dating for shy tips:


Feel comfortable

When dating anxiety takes you over, it is in your best interest to make yourself feel comfortable. If you are anxious, it’s okay not to push yourself to doing things you aren’t comfortable. Feel safe within your comfort zone.


Admit

Do not worry. You won’t break a heart by revealing that you have social anxiety problem. it would help to be honest about the venue you feel comfortable being at for the date. You do not want to feel uncomfortable in your surroundings and ruin your date worrying about things beyond your control. But in admitting your social anxiety problem, you don’t have to go into detail.


Practice self-disclosure

One way to overcome dating anxiety is to practice self-disclosure. Did you know self-disclosure could be the magic wand to bring you closer to someone?

Self-disclosure is more about revealing your thoughts and feelings so they learn what matters to you. People who value your thoughts and beliefs might want this partnership to go on.


Shun the fear of being judged

People suffering from social anxiety fear being judged or being negatively evaluated by others. This may prevent them from not disclosing about themselves. Similarly, when you are struggling with dating anxiety, you do not want your date to negatively perceive you or harshly judge you.

Avoid judging yourself harshly, as this is at the root of social anxiety and makes you vulnerable.


Self-acceptance

It is important to accept yourself as you are before stepping out in the world to accept you. Unless you reinforce your sense of self-acceptance, you may continue to feel intimidated to share with others.

Contrarily, when you feel good about yourself and all that you do, you can take a strong stand against judgement. If you are your harshest critic, then it’s time to strengthen your inner self and overcome dating anxiety. Now you can fearlessly open the door to the world to come closer.


Play it safe

Social anxiety has already challenged your confidence. So you do not want to challenge yourself further by experimenting on a first date. This is not the time to choose a new look or hairstyle unless you have tried it before and are confident to carry yourself. Instead keep it simple to walk confidently in your own skin. You do not want to worry about the new look going wrong. It will only add to your stress levels.

 

Feeling anxious over dating is normal for most people. But if you have a sense of social anxiety, you are bound to see it as a challenge. Try not to become vulnerable to your own ideas and self-limitations when you try to step out of your cocoon for a dating experience. Instead be true to yourself and reveal your real side so that your date may choose between going forward together or not. Give yourself an opportunity to be you and choose your partner by taking steps to overcome dating anxiety.

 

Rav

Being shy is not a sin. Many people are shy, so are you. But when it comes to dating, you seem to struggle and are not able to overcome the self-imposed fear. You cannot seem to find a way out. Of course, you do not want to step out of your comfort zone either. Worry not. There are dating tips for shy guys that can help you break the barriers and find a soul mate.

Look for like-minded types

The whole process gets easier when you start looking for somebody who shares common interests or shared circumstances. When you meet a like-minded person, you can break the ice. Try joining a group to make things easier. Else, get the help of your friends.

Choose wisely

If you are taking a girl to a date, you want to go to a place you are familiar with. It is important to feel comfortable and relaxed. A familiar setting is meant just for that. You can feel relaxed and have fun as well. This will allow you more time to focus on your date instead of worrying about the whole unfamiliar setup.

Stay within your comfort zone

It’s okay to stay within your comfort zone as long as you want to. The whole idea is to gain more self-confidence. When you do feel confident about yourself and have no fears about the relationship, you have already broken the ice.

Improve your body language

While it’s okay to be comfortable in your own skin, but there are a few personality traits that you should try to focus as a dating tip for shy guys. If you slouch when you walk, it’s time to improve your body language. The idea is to feel even more confident about your looks and personality. Wear a smile always and you can win over anyone.

Keep it short and simple

When you want to approach a girl for dating, start with a small conversation about her interests and hobbies. This gives you an idea about her. By the end of the conversation, you may ask for her number. If she seems interested, go ahead.

Be alert of her signals

You want to stay alert to her signals. Watch out for those tell-tale signs that point toward her intentions and interest in you. Does she go out of her way for you? Does she smile too often to jokes that aren’t too funny? Does she always wear a smile upon seeing you?

Once you notice these signs, you have a hint that she is attracted toward you.

Let her know you are shy

One of the best dating tips for shy men is to let the woman know you are an introvert and reserved kind. You may not be loud or rude or even extremely funny, but you still have a heart that is looking for someone special. When you reveal this to her, she might be interested in your honesty and authenticity. If she welcomes you, go ahead with the relationship. You are made for each other.

Be friends with women that don’t attract you

You should start to interact with girls that do not appeal to you. May be there is someone you do not consider apt for dating. But since you are shy, you are unable to speak up to those that attract you. So one way to break the ice is to be friends with women whether they attract you or not. You can build confidence and the dating scene should get easier for you.

It might help to build social skills that help you interact with the fairer sex in a better way. This will also help you overcome shyness and be a confident-looking guy.

Be a dating material yourself in order to attract the opposite sex. These dating tips for shy guys should make life a little easier when you seriously want to find someone special.

Rav

You are looking for someone special and come across one who is afraid because of their past hurt and heartbreak. But there is no wrong in loving someone who has been broken and hurt from a past betrayal. By loving someone who has been cheated on, you are trying to reignite their faith in love. True, it is not easy to trust and love someone again once your faith has been dented. To them, this was the uglier side of love that they have tasted and thus become afraid. What should you do to repose their faith and reignite their fire of love? Here are some dating tips for you.

Tips To Date Someone Who Has Been Cheated

Commit

If you’re going to love a broken heart, try to do it wholeheartedly. Commit yourself to them and do so with a pure heart because you have the onus of not breaking them further. Another heartbreak could be suicidal for anyone. Convey your love in every form so they feel close and inclined to trust.

Communicate

Stand by their side whenever they need you and hold their hand with a reassurance that you are always there. Effective communication can break barriers. When you communicate with honesty, they will be less hesitant to trust you. This is one of the most effective dating tips to convince someone to fall in love again.

Convince

Comfort them in every possible way. Do not hesitate to unpack your baggage before them so they realize that you trust them. Ultimately, they will feel comfortable trusting you and may not hesitate to let you in. 

However, be patient and allow them time to open up. Remember, they have had a heartbreak and need time. They might be scared to start a new relationship and want to move slowly and be attached to you. But when that moment does come, you have done a great job at convincing someone who has been betrayed that love is beautiful and love is eternal.

Contact

Be in constant touch with them and remind them all the time how exceptional they are. One of the dating tips to convince a broken heart is to make them realize how special they are and how they make you feel. Do everything you can to give them a glimpse of how strongly you feel for them and how you see them.

Remember, someone who has had a breakup and heartbreak needs constant affirmation to let love win again. They have suffered a severe blow to their self-confidence and self-esteem. Let them find no reason to doubt your integrity. You have got the opportunity to do something for them. You cannot erase their hurt and past. But you can surely make them feel safe and loved. So follow this dating tips and stay committed.

Don’t give them a reason to doubt you

Your partner might find it tough to overcome jealousy and paranoia, for they are dealing with a situation when they cannot easily trust anyone. You might find it hard to convince them most of the time because they are suffering from a heartbreak and cautious of taking any step or trusting someone again.

Actions speak louder than words. Do not do anything that reminds them of the betrayal; rather, do not give them a reason to doubt you. Earn his confidence by introducing them to your circle of friends. This will amp up the trust factor.

Tell them you are serious about the relationship and are ready to wait. They may take time to convince themselves of falling in love again.

If you’re going to love someone with a heartbreak, remind yourself time and again that they are hoping they won’t have to deal with the heartbreak again. They have an undeniable fear factor that can fade away gradually with communication, honesty, and reassurance. Reinforce their trust factor, and you can win against their fear of betrayal. Follow these dating tips to transform a life that is reeling under pain and heartbreak.

Rav Jun 20 · Tags: dating tips, heartbreak
Rav

If you are single and looking for love, you want to meet the right person with whom you can establish a love connection. It is easy to become discouraged about dating when you take a dip into the dating world and find too many dating hindrances and are unable to find the right connection. Let’s burst some common dating myths.

Myth: Unless there is an instant attraction to someone, you should not pursue the relationship.

Fact: Well, you want to stay away from this myth. Instant sexual attraction or love at first sight does not happen in all cases. You might have come across some friends turning lifelong lovers. True love can take time so give your relationship time to develop. Research claims that 43% of singles found their partners not attractive first but later fell in love with them.

Myth: True love is constant

Fact: Nothing is constant in life. Love is no exception either. But that doesn’t mean you should lose faith over love. Physical attraction may fade over time though.

Myth: Men don't like to be invited on a date by women

This is one of the biggest dating misconceptions that you should not believe. The reality is different though. In fact, most men feel more comfortable when a woman asks them out.

Myth: Journal your thoughts to overcome the pain of a breakup

Some people believe that a tear-stained notebook is the solution to overcoming the pain of losing your love. But it might make your situation even worse. Alternatively, your focus should be on turning your journaling hobby to write a narrative that sees the breakup as learning experience.

Myth: If it has to happen, the first date spark is a must

Here is another dating myth that you should be willing to disbelieve. If the spark does not happen at the first date, that does not mean it cannot get serious. In fact, if you both had a nice time together, it is a good idea to plan a second and third date. But if you cannot see a spark in the following meetings, you may call it quits. The spark can happen over time and is not necessarily at the first sight always.

Myth: It should be lust at first sight

This is the biggest blunders in dating that you want to avoid. Lust at first sight is not necessary for love to bloom. It may happen when you are dating for the first time or seeing each other for the third or fourth time. Sometimes one-night stands turn into lifelong love. In other cases, the relationship does not go beyond the first night.

Myth: You cannot find true love Online

Another dating myth worth busting is that online dating cannot be serious. You might be surprised to find that these days love is happening online. In fact, most people turn to online dating as their lives are busy and cannot find love in the real world. They turn to online platforms to meet like-minded people. When you actually find someone who shares your views, you are more likely to be on a level playing field. So it has nothing to do with where you are finding love.

Love can surely happen online.

Myth: Successful women do not like dating an unsuccessful guy

The reality is different. Research claims that 87% of single men date a successful woman who makes relatively more money than him. Food for thought!

Myth: Females are more romantic

In reality, men turn out to be more romantic. They are more likely to be the ones to convey their intimacy to the woman, saying "I love you."

Rav Jun 12
Rav

Dating need not be a tough terrain for all the lesbians out there. Unlike gay relationships, lesbians might find the terrain slightly tougher. However, here are some dating tips for lesbians to find their dream girl and make merry.


1.      Don’t fall for a girl with a boyfriend

You are a lesbian and do not like boys. So one lesbian dating tip you cannot deny is to look for a like-minded girl who is not with a boyfriend. It amounts to inviting trouble. You don’t want that, right? Your best life mate will be one who loves to stay in the company of girls more than boys. That’s it. So it would be a mistake to wait for a girl to break up with her boyfriend to be with you. There are hundreds of thousands others waiting to be yours. Go, explore.

2.      Find places to meet your dream girl

Is there a lesbian at work? Go and acquaint yourself. There is nothing to be shy. In fact, she might be happy to know that you’re part of her tribe. You are good to go together. Or you could spread the word in your friend circle that you are single and ready to mingle with a hot girl.


Online dating apps for lesbians are a good platform too. If you cannot find one locally, go online. Who knows your girl might be sitting away from your surroundings in another region or even country? Love knows no boundaries, right? Explore!


3.      Be your best

Lesbian dating is all about understanding your date. Schedule a time and date to meet your special girl. Ask her about her likes and make her feel special. Try to find what is more important to her. What’s her favorite activity? Be ready with your answers as well. However, this is not the time to talk about your ex.


Girls do not like the mention of another girl. The case with lesbian dating is no different. But be honest and tell her if you are enjoying her company. Compliment her. Tell her, “you look beautiful.” “I love your eyes.” Talk a little and then make the first move, saying “you’re so sexy and make me nervous.”

If both of you click together, it’s time for another romantic rendezvous.


4.     Don’t hesitate to follow up

When looking for the best lesbian tips, you want to make sure you don’t forget to follow up.

Okay, so you have had an amazing date together. Call her or text the same night to tell her how amazing you feel after meeting her. Show that you’ve been thinking of her all the while.

This is an open invitation to her to intimate her interest. Demonstrate your availability for texting so she knows that you are always there for her, irrespective of the hour on the clock.

Set the ball rolling in your favor and wait for her heart to beat for you.


5.      Get permission

Lesbian dating can never go wrong if you seek her permission. There’s nothing wrong in asking her consent to make the first move. “Can I kiss you,” do not hesitate to ask. 


This makes her feel flattered, respectful, and honest. Remember, that first kiss could be a game changer while being an anxiety-provoking experience too.

Stay excited. Stay motivated. Wear that smile on your face. The spark in your eyes might just become the reason for her to fall for you. It may or may not be love at first sight. But if you are like-minded, lesbian dating cannot get easier than that.

You are made for each other. Congratulations!

 

 

 

Rav

Gay dating requires a lot of patience and understanding from both guys. If you seek a gay relationship, you want to avoid dating mistakes that most gay couples make.

There is a lot of misunderstanding between both partners on being in an open gay relationship. Each relationship is all about honoring boundaries and agreements. As a gay partner, you both want to discuss this every few months. If there are no agreements or boundaries, this could ruin relationship.


You cannot ignore the need to match tempers with your gay partner. If both are short-tempered, that won’t take your relationship too far. It is important to share your feelings and expectations. It is equally important to set boundaries. Communication breakdown can result in a ruined relationship. Unless you trust your partner, gay dating mistakes are bound to happen. Don’t be afraid of discussing your problems with him.


Compromising on issues

When you are together, you may either have the same goals or be completely okay with compromising your objectives. Are you ready to compromise on certain issues? If you are not, then it is better to part ways instead of making the gay dating mistake of holding on to someone who has different principles and goals.


Settling for someone who is an opposite

Do opposites really attract? Well, not always. So if your partner is a complete opposite in preferences, choices, missions, and likes, the relationship might not go a long way. It is bound to come to an end one day. Harmonious couples are more likely to grow well together and be in love forever than opposites. Do not make the gay dating mistake of continuing with them.


Moving together too fast

Most gay couples instinctively move together as soon as they find love with the other partner. But it is a dating mistake the gay should avoid. Discuss the responsibilities of each other. What are the borders? This will ensure that you both live happily ever after and do not cross boundaries either.


Studying the behavior of the partner and understanding their weaknesses and strengths will make you a happy couple.


Judging by appearance

Attractive looks matter but they should not be the deciding factor when it comes to choosing a gay partner. This is one common gay dating mistake that many of those seeking love make. You may have certain style or looks preferences and in searching for one who matches your personality criteria, you might have ignored someone better.


One person might have the same personality traits but hold an opposite world view and have different preferences. Losing your heart to him may not work in the long run for you. Rather, look for a decent single who is made just for you.


Mixing your past dating experience into new relationship

Avoid making the gay dating mistake of taking your previous romantic experience into your new gay relationship. Everyone is not the same. You might have suffered a lot of emotional scars from your previous relationship. Let you learn a lesson from them. But never let those emotional abuses ruin your peace of mind or present relationship. Be honest with your guy. It is best to share your views and pay heed to them too. That’s the secret to a healthy communication. Truly, it might help nurture your relationship too.


Not trusting gay dating sites

If you seek a gay partner, then your best opportunity to find one lies in dating sites for men. You cannot keep sitting in your apartment day dreaming about a potential gay partner. Unless you log onto social networking or gay dating sites, you might be making this dating mistake of sitting without doing anything.


Do not be afraid to join dating sites for gay men to explore a plethora of choices. Your dream guy might be a few clicks away. So what are you waiting for?

 

 

 

Rav

If you are an introvert, dating might seem like a challenge because you have a lot of social energy to spend. But your task is to find all barriers and take a step forward. Being an Introvert doesn’t mean the dating scene is not for you.


Alternatively, it doesn’t mean you’re bad at communication. Being an introvert, you have an inherent skill of listening to others, which is the trait of a great conversationalist that people want to be company with. Here are dating tips for introverts to take the awkwardness out of your first date. Ready for the good news?

Be yourself

Don’t try to step into the shoes of another. Be yourself. However, you should not hide the fact that you are an introvert. Wait for the right time to open up and be honest.


An introvert might find a first date slightly uncomfortable. Don’t worry and embrace the opportunity! Your first date as an introvert could be a minefield of mindless chatter. But that does not mean you do not deserve to be on a date.


 Introverts find any form of socializing as an activity that drains their strength and deplete their ideas. You fear rejection and/or romance.


But in order to be in love and find a date, you must exploit the “dating for introverts” opportunity. Now that does not mean your first date will go as expected. Don’t take it as once-in-a-lifetime opportunity; rather, treat it like a practice session.

When you start viewing dating as practice, you will learn something from every single date. Take it as a great learning experience. Not all first dates are made for you. But this learning experience will help you be ready to charm that special someone who makes your heart sing now that you already know where you falter.

Be bold

Introverts are happy with themselves but if you feel like exploring the dating for introverts opportunity to find your soul mate, try to be bold enough to suggest a follow-up date after the first one. It’s absolutely okay if that first date did not work. Some dates do not.


Don’t pretend to be someone else

You are doing yourself no favor in trying to be an extrovert. Do not hesitate to clear things up early on. Clearly state on your profile that you are an introvert. This will help clear up things upfront and you will have nothing much to worry later.

Take the spotlight away from you

Let the conversation revolve around the other person than you. Taking the spotlight off yourself gives you an opportunity to take it easy and feel confident to open up slowly.


Don’t fear rejection

Instead keep rejection on mind. One of the basics of dating for introverts is to never let the fear of rejection drag your feet back. Rejections are common in the dating scene. You should be ready to face one. It’s okay to come out of the self-inhibiting cocoon and take a step out of your comfort zone. Sometimes some lessons are for a lifetime and are learned the hard way.


If someone rejects, that means the other person doesn’t know you. It’s their loss, not yours.


So move on and think from a different perspective. Love yourself more and accept rejection like a lesson.

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