Dating Tips for Lesbians from Rav's blog

Dating need not be a tough terrain for all the lesbians out there. Unlike gay relationships, lesbians might find the terrain slightly tougher. However, here are some dating tips for lesbians to find their dream girl and make merry.

1.      Don’t fall for a girl with a boyfriend

You are a lesbian and do not like boys. So one lesbian dating tip you cannot deny is to look for a like-minded girl who is not with a boyfriend. It amounts to inviting trouble. You don’t want that, right? Your best life mate will be one who loves to stay in the company of girls more than boys. That’s it. So it would be a mistake to wait for a girl to break up with her boyfriend to be with you. There are hundreds of thousands others waiting to be yours. Go, explore.

2.      Find places to meet your dream girl

Is there a lesbian at work? Go and acquaint yourself. There is nothing to be shy. In fact, she might be happy to know that you’re part of her tribe. You are good to go together. Or you could spread the word in your friend circle that you are single and ready to mingle with a hot girl.

Online dating apps for lesbians are a good platform too. If you cannot find one locally, go online. Who knows your girl might be sitting away from your surroundings in another region or even country? Love knows no boundaries, right? Explore!

3.      Be your best

Lesbian dating is all about understanding your date. Schedule a time and date to meet your special girl. Ask her about her likes and make her feel special. Try to find what is more important to her. What’s her favorite activity? Be ready with your answers as well. However, this is not the time to talk about your ex.

Girls do not like the mention of another girl. The case with lesbian dating is no different. But be honest and tell her if you are enjoying her company. Compliment her. Tell her, “you look beautiful.” “I love your eyes.” Talk a little and then make the first move, saying “you’re so sexy and make me nervous.”

If both of you click together, it’s time for another romantic rendezvous.

4.     Don’t hesitate to follow up

When looking for the best lesbian tips, you want to make sure you don’t forget to follow up.

Okay, so you have had an amazing date together. Call her or text the same night to tell her how amazing you feel after meeting her. Show that you’ve been thinking of her all the while.

This is an open invitation to her to intimate her interest. Demonstrate your availability for texting so she knows that you are always there for her, irrespective of the hour on the clock.

Set the ball rolling in your favor and wait for her heart to beat for you.

5.      Get permission

Lesbian dating can never go wrong if you seek her permission. There’s nothing wrong in asking her consent to make the first move. “Can I kiss you,” do not hesitate to ask. 

This makes her feel flattered, respectful, and honest. Remember, that first kiss could be a game changer while being an anxiety-provoking experience too.

Stay excited. Stay motivated. Wear that smile on your face. The spark in your eyes might just become the reason for her to fall for you. It may or may not be love at first sight. But if you are like-minded, lesbian dating cannot get easier than that.

You are made for each other. Congratulations!