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There are primarily five stages of dating, from attraction to engagement. The other stages include disappointment, commitment, and intimacy. When you start to date someone, you will pass through these five stages of dating, but not in all cases. This is true only if both sides are interested in a lifetime commitment.

Does it hold true for online dating?

Well, users of dating sites agree with this fact that every relationship passes through 5 main stages. It is no different for those trying out online dating.

·        Attraction and Romance

·        Disappointment or Reality

·        Commitment

·        Intimacy

·        Engagement

Some relationships do not progress until the last stage due to the lack of compatibility and commitment.


It all begins with attraction. It may be due to the looks of the other person or their style. It’s at the beginning of the dating stage. This phase may last one to three months or more in some cases. This is the least unsustainable stage and people who prefer to change partners frequently often try to remain in the attraction stage.  Seeing only good in another person, spending a lot of time together, and no sight of conflict are the characteristics of attraction stage.


If both partners continue to be committed, they enter the reality stage, which may be quite different from the first stage. The phase often lasts six months. This is the stage when attraction gives way to reality. It’s a kind of eye-opener for both.

There is a high chance of the relationship ending in disdain as you start to see flaws in another person. You may often wonder whether you have made a mistake. However, while some relationships end at this dating stage, some may be willing to accept each other's flaws. That means, you can progress to the next stage.


If your relationship stands the test of the second stage, you enter the third dating stage. This stage could be even worse as disappointments set in. Small differences might look like a balloon. You might wonder if the other person is right for you. At times, you might be forced to think that the relationship is ending. You might decide to break up.

On the other hand, if partners understand each other and do not give up communication, the relationship may be given another chance to survive.


If your relationship survives the instability of stage three, it’s a lifetime opportunity to strengthen the bond. You enjoy this stage and allow the relationship time to develop and grow. When a relationship enters stability, it’s most likely to progress into commitment. That means you have been together for quite some time and understand each other better. You have realized how to work through the differences and still respect and love each other. While there is no longer the attraction fantasy, you are in real love now. Keeping the spark alive might reinforce the relationship further.


The last on the list of dating stages, which are also relationship stages, commitment is all you need to be partners and forever in love. While not all couples make it this far, if you do, you can decide to tie the knot and be together forever. Now that you have chosen to be committed to each other, that means you have accepted their flaws, and their weaknesses do not bother you any longer.

It’s a sign you are in love and want to be committed and envision seeing both of you together forever.

These are primarily the most common dating stages from which every relationship passes. From attraction to commitment, it’s a journey that will end up in a fruitful relationship. Happy dating

Are you looking for that one special person who will be your dream girl or prince charming? With numerous fake profiles and personalities around, it is but not easy to find true love, right? Luckily, there are still ways to find real love.

Try to be perfect

Well, true, that you want a perfect partner, but have you considered being one yourself? Food for thought, right? A majority of relationship problems is because of uneven expectations. So if you want real relationship, you ought to take a little responsibility to change yourself first. If you want a perfect partner, first, try to be one yourself. Once you do this, all unnecessary expectations will disappear. You can start making genuine connections and there will be no place for unhealthy relationships. So when you seek an amazing partner, first be one yourself.

Don’t sound needy

If you try to be one, you will never find happiness in life. People can easily sense needy behavior. If you try to garner someone’s attention or affection, you are being needy. It could be a major turn off. The other person might think of you in a different way. You do not have to sound salesy, right – not at all when trying to look for real relationship. In trying to be a people pleaser, you sound needy. But what is more important is to care about what you think of yourself. Your inability to take care of yourself is at the root of dating problems.

It’s you first

Unless you love yourself, nobody will love you. So start caring for yourself if you want others to respect, care for, and love you. A person who believes in self-care for physical and mental growth can do well in relationships. Caring for yourself is not being selfish. In fact, you will have a new outlook toward life and can engage with others genuinely.

Develop your interests

When you focus on developing your interests, you will be happier than ever. It gives you joy and pleasure. When you do so, you will meet genuine people who share your values. Some will be attracted to you based on your talent and interests. Real people love to meet those who share their interests and respect their passion. They are more likely to connect with those whose interests align with theirs.

Can You Find Real Love Online?

Well, there is nothing wrong in finding real love online. In fact, there are online dating apps that can connect you with people who are genuinely interested in a relationship. No doubt, these apps are great for meeting people quickly. If you are seriously seeking real love, there is no wrong in sending the message across to the other person on a first date. Do not lose heart if it scares them off. Rather, you have done yourself a favor by not wasting time with someone who was never meant for your love.

Real people might ask for time. So you can plan out a few meetings with them to know each other and decide if you have found real love. Express yourself honestly and be proud of yourself. However, with that said, be cautious of your choice. Do not be vulnerable. When you have decided to express yourself to the other person, you are willing to accept the consequences as well. 

No matter what the result of your honesty, do not feel hurt or desolate if the result goes against your wishes. You cannot control others’ intentions and thoughts, right?

Stay true to yourself and honestly take charge of the dating game. Real love will soon be your partner.

Rav Apr 1 '21 · Tags: dating, online dating, real love

Are you looking to date again? But since you have not dated for long and your last date was decades ago, the dating scene has surely changed.  So you are apprehensive about dating at 60 and want to be cautious with each step. Senior dating etiquette remains the same. 

Women still want to feel loved and cared for while men still do not hesitate to show their gentlemanly demeanor.  So what are the senior dating etiquette that you do not want to miss?

1.      First date payment

Should men always pay for the first date? Well, it is generally the case. But some senior men are now living on social security, which means they do not have a lot to splurge on lavish meals. So if men were to pay for the date, it is rational for women to their meal choices modest.  In some cases, men might expect their women partners to pay or at least pitch in.

2.      Senior dating behavior

If you are struggling with funds, it is in your best interest to keep your selection of venue in mind. Pay for dinner. When you’re spending less, it should not hurt to do all of those extra gentlemanly things. There is no monetary value attached to this show of etiquette but it will help in the growth of the feelings of attraction. Small gentlemanly etiquette can impress her. Open the restaurant door and car door for her. Present her a rose.

3.      Questions

Well, it’s your first date as a senior. You want to make this experience pleasant for both of you. It’s okay to ask a few questions about themselves. However, that does not mean throwing a volley of questions at her. It is a mistake to try to get all of the answers at once. This mistake might cause her date to freak out.

4.      Cultural differences

There are cultural differences and they might cause problems in senior relationships. Some seniors might come from a culture where affection was not openly shown. While you might find it a way to show love and affection by holding hands, some cultures may maintain distances and may not treat this as normal until you get to know each other or enter into a relationship. So you do not want to make the date feel uncomfortable. It would help to talk through cultural challenges first and show respect to each other.

5.      Take Your Time

Good senior etiquette is all about giving time to each other to understand and take the relationship further.  Do not forget to show gentlemanly behaviour at all occasions. Once the relationship is past a couple of months, you can ask her to meet at a venue. Your gentleman-like approach to the relationship will never be faulted. Some older daters can continue to correspond via email without actually meeting her in person. Now you do not want to get stuck in the email land; rather, it would help to meet sooner. Emailing is not dating. After transitioning to a committed relationship, it’s time to open up the discussion about taking the relationship further.

All in all, do not try to rush the process. Give the relationship time. Some senior daters are in a hurry to rush the process. Build confidence and trust in the relationship and exhibit senior dating etiquette as a showcase of your being a gentleman. You are more likely to win her heart if that’s what you aim to do.



You lost your life partner some time back and feel lonely and isolated. Are you ready for dating after 60 and widowhood? Do you wonder if it is even right to date that late in life? Why not? You deserve to be happy, so there is no reason to let widowhood be a stumbling block for you to find someone in life. No doubt, the pain of losing a loved one stays with you forever but it is equally important to move on. The pain and loneliness may be too much to bear alone. In that case, finding someone special who understands your feelings and values them equally makes sense. So senior dating after 60 is a possibility.

Should You Be Dating After 60 and Widowhood?

When you’re 60 years and a widow, you are bound to find yourself all alone. Having a new partner is surely a comfort, and that does not always mean having a sexual partner. It’s more about having another human being in life when the loss of a life mate adds a lot of stress and pain in life. You may be in need for another partner who would ease your pain.

But if your deceased partner continues to flock your thoughts, you may not be fully prepared to let someone else in fully. You may want to wait until the pain subsides.  When you are still in pain, it may not be the right time to find a potential soulmate. You may choose to wait for 6 months and decide if you want to move on.

Are You A Bad Dating Material as a Widow?

A widow could be the perfect potential partner in your search for a healthy relationship. However, it is in your best interest to proceed cautiously with someone that has lost their loved one too. They may not be mentally ready to accept a new partner at the moment. Most widows need time to digest the loss of a loved one and tend to continue dwelling in the past. Some are even looking for a special person that can replicate their loved one.

So are you ready to date after widowhood?

Prepare yourself for Dating

You are wondering if dating after 60 and widowhood is a right step?

Well, first, it is important to feel complete on your own to attract a healthy relationship. However, some elderly widows start to feel guilty of looking for a new partner. They might feel they are betraying their deceased partner. But this is not the case.

You may continue to cherish your old relationship and celebrate the fond memories of your lost loved one. But you deserve to live happily. So it is wrong to let those feelings of betrayal sabotage your prospects of finding someone who could bring happiness to your life.

Share your feelings, desires, and expectations

Now that you are thinking of dating after 60 and widowhood, it’s time to plan what kind of relationship you are interested in. What are your desires? What do you want in the relationship? It is not wrong to be explicit about your feelings when you know each other. However, you should not reveal all of your feelings and expectations in the first date itself.

Do you value independence more?

If you think your man or woman was more in charge of your life and now that they are gone, you are independent of making your life’s decisions, dating after 60 and widowhood might not be the right decision. But if you are ready to let someone make a few decisions for you and complement your decisions, go ahead with dating after 60 and sharing your life with someone else.

Widows after 60 are interested in finding a partner who shares mutual interests, understanding, feelings, and common dreams. They want to be loved and appreciated by someone with whom they share their special moments, trying times, and laughter. So are you ready for dating after 60 and widowhood?

Rav Mar 20 '21 · Tags: dating after 60, dating a widow

When it comes to online dating, the first thing that strikes the mind is that it is for young singles. But the reality is fast changing. Senior singles are also finding their soul mates online. This gives you reasons to jump onto online dating platforms to find your special someone. However, there are also concerns about online dating safety for seniors, giving the rising incidences of scams on the Internet.

How Older Singles Can Avoid Online Dating Scams

Before jumping onto the Internet bandwagon, older adults should get more insight into the online dating best practices. It is important to learn about the risks and potential red flags before showing interest in a profile. Here are a few tips on online dating safety for seniors.

Avoid sharing personal details

Now you do not want to share your personal information online with a stranger. This includes your contact details, date of birth, and Social Security number. Of course, the idea is to secure information that might be exploited for identity theft. Not only this, senior singles should refrain from sharing details about their routine and children.

Avoid revealing financial details

Most of the online scammers are trying to dupe you of your money. Revealing your financial information to a stranger is one of the biggest mistakes to avoid. Giving away money is another. If your date asks you for money, it could be a scam. Do not offer a cent unless you are sure about the other person and know them well. Run away from a date that says they can’t access their email or bank account and are in financial emergency. You do not want to take your relationship forward with a date that asks you to wire money or reload their gift cards.

Take time to respond to first ‘sight’ love

Most scammers are quick to convey their “strong feelings.”  They may not hesitate to speak up their emotions within a few days of starting online communication with you. If someone has just met you online and expresses their strong feelings, take your time to determine their reality. It could be a scammer trying to bewitch you with their feelings in order to steal your financial details.

Avoid anybody that rejects video/phone calls

One of the most important online dating safety for seniors tips is to avoid anybody who is unwilling to talk over phone or on a video call. They might be trying to steal their identity.

Forget about anybody who talks of horrible financial crisis

A scammer is more interested in your money than anything else. So most of their conversation could surround money. They may weave stories around financial distress and try to emotionally attract your attention to their ongoing monetary “crisis.”  They might say they are a victim of fraud or have suffered a dramatic death of a loved one and need money to pay for their funeral. Or one of the most common financial excuses is a layoff and/or loss of pension.

How To Avoid Online Dating Risks For Seniors

Joining a reputable online dating site can significantly reduce the risk of fraud in the Internet dating world. Reputable sites have access to an array of resources to do a security and profile verification. These websites want to maintain their reputation and have stringent policies on senior dating fraud. It would help to be an online sleuth and explore the social media profiles of your date. If they do not have any online presence, except a presence in the dating site, it could be a red signal.



Rav Feb 18 '21

The dating world has changed from what it was decades ago. Now that you are 50, you might find it even daunting and intimidating. However, dating can be a lot of fun if you find the right person. In fact, it is a great opportunity to find someone who could be the most important person in your life. Dating at 50 need not be daunting, though it won’t be anything like it was when you were in your twenties.

Online dating

Meeting people online is a huge change from the traditional dating game. But that does not mean you cannot find a trustworthy relationship online. Get a friend’s advice on your online profile and picture before publishing your dating profile online. Finding someone serious may take some time as mature men and women are still reluctant to find a genuine romantic connection online.

Take up a hobby

You might be surprised to learn that one of the top dating at 50 tips is to take up a hobby and then try to find a like-minded person who shares the same love. When you are mature enough at 50 years of age, you can connect better with like-minded people. Who knows you might come into touch with lots of new people who love the same hobby as you. This can bring you both closer.

Clear it up with family

Dating at 50 might make you feel a little self-conscious when it comes to revealing the secret to family and friends. If you have grown-up children, you might feel a little more intimidated. But you need a good support network if you are serious about pursuing a happy romantic relationship. 

Reveal the news to your kids and do not hesitate to communicate about the big changes expected in your life.

Learn to deal with rejections

Even at 50, dating might be a little intimidating. Every person is not the same. All people have different tastes and preferences. While one loves a pineapple, another loves apples. So you do not have to feel dejected if someone rejects your invitation of dating at 50. There is no reason to give up.

If you’re experiencing frustration with dating at 50 years, remember that you may not find the love of your life on the first or second date. You may need to go on date with different people before actually finding someone special. A few bad experiences should not leave a bad taste in your mouth. It’s absolutely normal.

Leave your insecurities out

Remember, there is no space for negativity or insecurity feelings. Forget the sad feelings from the past. Your failed relationship is history now. You have to get back to your life and not carry the burden along. Do not let yourself suffer from any guilt feeling. First, clear your mind of all negativity and put yourself in a positive frame of mind that you are ready for the dating at 50 game.

Remember that it’s okay to take things slowly and feel comfortable with someone. It’s perfectly fine to wait for someone with whom you can establish the right connection. All the best.


Are you looking for senior dating tips? Are you wondering whether it is the right thing to do? First, there is nothing to be ashamed if you are a senior and looking for a date. Why spend the rest of your life mourning over the loss of a soulmate or disheartened after a painful divorce? You deserve to be happy. If you are emotionally ready to begin a new relationship, you should start looking for a date. But before that, you may want to make the decision on the type of relationship you are looking for. Are you interested in a serious relationship? Do you want to be married? Or you seek a casual companionship?

Rekindle the feeling

If the old memories of your ex or deceased spouse still haunt you, give yourself time to heal before entering into a new relationship. You do not want to let the baggage of bitterness or sadness burden your new relationship. Your bitterness might turn off a potential companion.

When those memories fade, you may want to think of someone else. You never know what the other person has gone through. Unless you are prepared to handle your pain and understand their emotions, you may like to stay away.

It might hurt your emotions further if you are yet not ready to listen in.

Time is a healer so move on

As far as senior dating is concerned, if you feel you have healed yourself of the anger or pain, you can take the next step to embrace someone else.  But it is perfectly fine to set your boundaries and find a partner who complements you. Alternatively, you are aware of your self-destructive habits, especially if your last relationship ended in a bitter divorce.

Shun those habits that might spoil your new bond. Anger or depression aren’t good habits to possess. Instead, embrace empathy and listen to your date and voice your feelings in an appropriate way. Is there a common ground? If so, you both might be the right fit for each other.

Where to search for a date?

Perhaps times have changed and the dating scene is no different. There is a new way to meet others or find a date online. Harness the power of the Internet to find your potential date. Do your homework and decide what you're interested in. It won’t hurt to stay safe. Exercise caution initially because you do not want to feel hurt again. Start with talking over the phone. Set up your first date in a coffee shop to get to know the date better.

Don’t automatically trust everything. Give yourself time to understand them. Be honest about what you’re looking for in terms of a relationship. If you share mutual feelings and the date seems the right fit for you, it’s time to take this relationship further.

Remember, trust is built gradually. One of the best senior dating tips is to take time to know someone well before making any decision on the relationship. Let a natural foundation of trust build. Yes, it may take months but that’s okay. It’s your life and you do not want to suffer any further after the hardships of a bitter relationship previously if you are a divorcee.


Dating in your 50s or 60s might be a little hard, but it is not something unthinkable. The dating rules apply to every age. So remember to stay safe and learn about yourself and the date before committing further. Wishing you happiness always!



Is dating after divorce a challenge? Well, it might seem like a daunting task, given the amount of hurt feelings, diminished confidence, and all sorts of relationship doubts you have.  But a divorce is not an end to the world, right? So dating after divorce is a new start to life. Who knows you might end up with someone who is made just for you?

Dating after Divorce Tips

Wait for the dating game

It is not the best time to jump into dating right away after a divorce. It is better to come in the right frame of mind in order to find a new dating partner. Remember, your mind could be full of anger and frustration at this time, especially if your partner cheated on you. You are hurt so give yourself some time before stepping up the dating game. This should allow you enough time to forget the hurt and frustration so the same feelings of doubt or jealously do not find a place in your new relationship.

Keep an eye out for someone special

When you feel that you have healed from the pain and frustration of divorce, you may start looking for a new dating partner. However, it is best to talk to the new date about your feelings of insecurity and mistrust that your previous relationship has left you with. This will ensure that they understand your emotions and keep things honest and transparent.

Identify what you need

Dating after divorce becomes easier when you identify the things you expect in your next partner to make the relationship feel fulfilled. Work on the pain points in your failed relationship and make sure the things do not repeat.

It all begins with prioritizing what you can and cannot live without. Make it clear before beginning with a new relationship. This will ensure that you get exactly what you are looking for.

Don’t sacrifice

The need to step out of your comfort zone cannot be overstressed. You ought to stay true to yourself. Dating after divorce should not be a challenge if you know how to reconnect with yourself. When dating post-divorce, do not define yourself purely on the basis of your new relationship. You want to focus on who you are and date someone only if they accept you as who you are.

Be transparent

One of the golden rules of dating after divorce is to stay transparent and honest in your new relationship. When you are comfortable interacting with the person you are dating, honestly speak about everything. Do not hesitate to go into long conversations once you are comfortable with them. Share your life goals and expectations from the relationship if the other person looks compatible. Don’t shy away from asking them about their life goals. How does the other person reacts and responds? Can you still see potential? If so, both of you can decide to move forward together.

Trust your gut

You deserve a second chance, right. But you want to make sure you do not end up with a person who does not make a good match. So forget them and do not commit to this relationship. Trust your instincts when you start dating after divorce and make a decision based on your gut feeling.


No doubt, the coronavirus pandemic has transformed life in more ways than one, but that does not mean you should forget about your relationship. While you want to make sure utmost safety, it is equally important to show commitment to maintaining a healthy relationship by supporting one another and creating happy memories even in the pandemic. So you want to make sure you have fun together to revive the spark in your relationship and get a little closer. Get a little creative and look beyond the usual dinner and movie.

Turn that dining room into a romantic dining destination

When you cannot afford the expense of a date night at a fine-dining restaurant, one date night idea for coronavirus is to recreate the scene at home. It does not take a lot to turn your boring dining room into a romantic dining destination where you can enjoy a romantic dinner together and come closer. Such date nights are more memorable and can be the kick you need to keep the fire on.

Have a dessert date

Okay, so both of you are crazy for desserts but you are watching calories too. Give yourself a reward for all the abstinence from sweets by having a dessert date. Pick your favorite dessert, which could be an ice cream, cake, or anything that tinkles the taste buds of the two of you. Just enjoy it sitting on your home dining destination or curled up in bed.

Play games together

When looking for an interesting date night idea for coronavirus, you might want to try playing a game together that interests you both. But you haven’t had the time to do so together for a while. Now is the time to get some fun playing games. Better still, instead of investing in a new game, it’s time to pick your grandfather’s chess board and try your luck. Remember, there is nothing to lose here but everything to gain.

Relive memories

The coronavirus pandemic has given you an opportunity to spend time together. One date night idea for coronavirus is to watch your wedding video. No doubt, both of you have some find memories of that special day. Rekindle those emotions, conjure feelings of nostalgia, and rebuild the spark that seemed to have been lost under the burden of everyday struggle. Do not forget to make the spouse feel special about how they impressed you on your wedding.

Talk of old times

Perhaps it’s an opportunity to travel in time and talk about your first interaction. Who impressed whom? What brought you both closer? Yes, this kind of sentiment can rekindle the fun and joy lost in a relationship over the years.

Just talk

While talking of the past can bring you closer, it might be a good date night idea for coronavirus pandemic times to spend time talking of the future. Be hopeful and encourage your partner to stay loyal to their goals. This too shall pass, emphasize on positivity. Hug them, kiss them, and sing a song of glory for your sweetheart. They will love you more.

Date nights for couples are about connecting with each other. What better way to connect than talk your heart out with the most special person in your life? A heartfelt conversation can be the game-changer and trigger the lost passion. Turn off the mobile phone and let this be the “we time” that both of you have forgotten about. You might be surprised to learn many new facts about your beloved during this date night that you were not even aware of.

Coronavirus or not, these date night ideas for couples will work during all times. Although it can be fun to plan a date night outside your abode, the type of environment can be easily created at home. the focus should be to spend time together to cultivate marital bliss and happiness.


Come winters, and it’s time to feel a little extra cozy, right? But 2020 sucks, thanks to the coronavirus pandemic that has wreaked havoc all around to the extent that a majority of us have been struck inside the confines of our homes. Perhaps social distancing ensures that we stay indoors most of the time. But does that mean your dating life should suffer too? Of course, not! Here are some amazing winter date ideas 2020 to spice it up through the holidays.

Stargazing is fun

Perhaps it is time to become a child again. Gaze at the moonlight and the twinkling starts. You don’t need to go out too far for such a splendid sight. It is best viewed from your own terrace.  Star gazing is a fun activity that both of you would love. Doesn’t the idea of a planetarium show sound relaxing and romantic? This way you can spend quality time together. No doubt, it should bring both of you closer.

Make a gingerbread house

Add to the fun of making your gingerbread house along with your sweetie. What should add to some extra fun is taking up a gingerbread design that challenges your skills and requires more time. When you both practice together on a piece of art or challenge each other to make their own, you are in for some quality time for the holidays. Doesn’t that sound like an excellent winter date idea 2020?

A virtual workout is therapeutic

Think beyond the cocktails and bring in some fitness goals. You could do virtual yoga together or push-ups. When you decide to take up a virtual workout challenge with your special someone, it becomes even more interesting. Research shows that when two people mimic each other, they are more attuned to their partner.

Go for the adrenaline pumping indoor rock climbing

Can’t think of any winter date ideas for COVID times? Well, jump start your relationship with an activity that pumps up your adrenaline. Sharing a physical challenging activity can work like magical bond for your relationship. Rock climbing is one such activity to bring you both together.

If you aren’t too adventurous, go for an indoor activity, such as ping pong. Even research finds that the release of endorphins when two people work out together brings both closer. After the sporting fun, it’s time to deepen the date with some fond memories of the day.

Go camping in the backyard

When winter date ideas 2020 look a little too difficult to try, think of the open outdoor space in your yard. You do not need to go too far for a camping space elsewhere. Recreate the atmosphere in the backyard or terrace with outdoor string lights, soft blankets, a fire pit, and hot chocolate and that’s it.  You'll be all set for some romantic date night experience at home. add to the experience with some extra fun playing card games or counting the stars or just looking for the planet Venus. You will love every bit of this experience.

Volunteer together

While you are looking for a classy winter date idea in COVID times, the holiday season is an invitation to get involved with community efforts. When you both volunteer together for a cause you care for, that would bring you closer to each other.

Giving back to others with someone by your side who shares the same community spirit of giving back can promote connectedness.

Create a spa at home

Spoil each other with a spa-like environment at home with candles lit all around. Pick an aromatherapy oil for massage. Keep a robe ready with the scent of rose or lavender. Soak in aromatic warm water along with your sweetie for an amazing winter date 2020.

The stress of coronavirus pandemic can’t ruin your winter date ideas. Enjoy the company of your beloved with these awesome winter date ideas for coronavirus and make memories.

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